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Aug. 18th, 2023 09:16 pmWhy are people so fucking stupid?
If I go out with someone, I tell them that I don't do monogamy. That doesn't mean we can't have a relationship, it just means I'm going to see other people. It is inevitable. They can see other people too. And if they want to discuss boundaries, I'm fine with that too. But if I tell you I don't do monogamy and you say you're fine with that and THEN you say you want to discuss the possibility of us becoming "exlusive" and I say "No." you have no right to be butt-hurt. I have been honest the entire time we've been dating. Did you think you would change me? Did you think because we got along really well and I like you that I would suddenly reassess my entire fucking life and decide that, yes, I will now be monogamous? Because that ain't happening. And if you can't deal with that, if you can't deal with my honesty, then you just need to fuck off and find someone else who's more in tune with what you want. But don't EVER try and put blame on me, because you're a goddamn fantasist!
Ugh.
Why are people so fucking stupid?
If I go out with someone, I tell them that I don't do monogamy. That doesn't mean we can't have a relationship, it just means I'm going to see other people. It is inevitable. They can see other people too. And if they want to discuss boundaries, I'm fine with that too. But if I tell you I don't do monogamy and you say you're fine with that and THEN you say you want to discuss the possibility of us becoming "exlusive" and I say "No." you have no right to be butt-hurt. I have been honest the entire time we've been dating. Did you think you would change me? Did you think because we got along really well and I like you that I would suddenly reassess my entire fucking life and decide that, yes, I will now be monogamous? Because that ain't happening. And if you can't deal with that, if you can't deal with my honesty, then you just need to fuck off and find someone else who's more in tune with what you want. But don't EVER try and put blame on me, because you're a goddamn fantasist!
Ugh.
Why are people so fucking stupid?
