RIP Dolly Parton :(
Aug. 25th, 2026 04:36 pmI was driving home from the grocery store this afternoon when they announced on the radio that country music star, Dolly Parton, had passed away at the age of 80. My immediate response was a long and plaintive, "Oh no!" Followed up by a series of "Damn! Damn! Damn!"
I genuinely liked Dolly Parton. I liked her music and her performances, and admired her philanthropy. She had a big heart and did a lot of good in the world.
Now she's gone and the world feels a little less bright.
I know a lot of other people are feeling sad about Ms. Parton's passing too. Accolades and expressions of sympathy are pouring in from everybody. The websites handling Dollywood and dollyparton.com have both crashed because they've been overloaded with people rushing to the sites. President Donald Trump has ordered U.S. flags be lowered to half-staff across the country for the rest of the week.
Dolly Parton made an impact with her kindness, her honesty and her generosity. I'm sure she had her burdens, but she seemed to bear them well, and I hope that wherever her spirit has ascended to, she is happy and at peace.
R.I.P. Miss Dolly.
The world will always love you.
I genuinely liked Dolly Parton. I liked her music and her performances, and admired her philanthropy. She had a big heart and did a lot of good in the world.
Now she's gone and the world feels a little less bright.
I know a lot of other people are feeling sad about Ms. Parton's passing too. Accolades and expressions of sympathy are pouring in from everybody. The websites handling Dollywood and dollyparton.com have both crashed because they've been overloaded with people rushing to the sites. President Donald Trump has ordered U.S. flags be lowered to half-staff across the country for the rest of the week.
Dolly Parton made an impact with her kindness, her honesty and her generosity. I'm sure she had her burdens, but she seemed to bear them well, and I hope that wherever her spirit has ascended to, she is happy and at peace.
R.I.P. Miss Dolly.
The world will always love you.
I tried watching "Widow's Bay" the other night. It had good reviews from the critics and the public, so I thought I'd give it a try.
*Le sigh*
I didn't even make it through the first half hour. I just couldn't stand the characters, so I was out.
Then I sat down and watched 'The Hairdresser Mysteries" which is just mindless slop. It's the kind of show you have on in the background while doing dishes or folding laundry. It's not must-watch tv by any standard, but it was better than 'Widow's Bay.'
The last show I watched that I really enjoyed was the comedy, 'Ann Droid.' Pleased to see it's getting a second season.
I wish I could find more things that I actually enjoyed, but it's difficult. Mainly because the show has to hit just right with me. If the characters are irritating or unsympathetic? I'm out. If the story is bad? I'm out. I can't quantify it any better than that.
That said, if anyone has any decent tv recommendations, let me know.
*Le sigh*
I didn't even make it through the first half hour. I just couldn't stand the characters, so I was out.
Then I sat down and watched 'The Hairdresser Mysteries" which is just mindless slop. It's the kind of show you have on in the background while doing dishes or folding laundry. It's not must-watch tv by any standard, but it was better than 'Widow's Bay.'
The last show I watched that I really enjoyed was the comedy, 'Ann Droid.' Pleased to see it's getting a second season.
I wish I could find more things that I actually enjoyed, but it's difficult. Mainly because the show has to hit just right with me. If the characters are irritating or unsympathetic? I'm out. If the story is bad? I'm out. I can't quantify it any better than that.
That said, if anyone has any decent tv recommendations, let me know.
Being semi-productive
Aug. 4th, 2026 12:22 amToday, I was semi-productive.
I got up, got dressed, and was going to (1) get the oil changed in my car and then (2) go grocery shopping.
Instead, I did (a) grocery shopping and then (b) laundry.
If I'd been REALLY productive, I'd have cleaned the bathroom and vacumed the bedroom. But I just didn't feel that motivated.
I'll go get the oil changed tomorrow and then I'll head to Ye Old Magick Shoppe and get the goatmilk soap I like that doesn't make my skin go all creepy and flaky.
And then, maybe, I'll go and see Spider-Man.
Maybe.
Who knows? I might wind up doing something completely different.
I got up, got dressed, and was going to (1) get the oil changed in my car and then (2) go grocery shopping.
Instead, I did (a) grocery shopping and then (b) laundry.
If I'd been REALLY productive, I'd have cleaned the bathroom and vacumed the bedroom. But I just didn't feel that motivated.
I'll go get the oil changed tomorrow and then I'll head to Ye Old Magick Shoppe and get the goatmilk soap I like that doesn't make my skin go all creepy and flaky.
And then, maybe, I'll go and see Spider-Man.
Maybe.
Who knows? I might wind up doing something completely different.
Foolishness and Consequences
Jul. 30th, 2026 08:01 pmLast night, for some reason that totally escapes me, I broke down and ordered a large Ultimate Pepperoni pizza with thin crust from Domino's.
It was both extremely satisfying and extremely disgusting. I haven't eaten anything like that in over a month and my taste buds were recoiling from all the salt. I don't think I'll be doing it again for a while.
Alas, I now must deal with the consequences of my decision. So, for the next four days, I'll be avoiding sodium. I try and keep mine under 1500mg a day, so four days should do me.
I'll be eating a lot of plain rice and fruit salad the next three days.
My poor stomach is not going to know what hit it.
Oy vey.
It was both extremely satisfying and extremely disgusting. I haven't eaten anything like that in over a month and my taste buds were recoiling from all the salt. I don't think I'll be doing it again for a while.
Alas, I now must deal with the consequences of my decision. So, for the next four days, I'll be avoiding sodium. I try and keep mine under 1500mg a day, so four days should do me.
I'll be eating a lot of plain rice and fruit salad the next three days.
My poor stomach is not going to know what hit it.
Oy vey.
Achy, but still alive....
Jul. 15th, 2026 02:21 pmSo, I've been on a low sodium, no caffeine diet for a little over three weeks. This Saturday, it will be four weeks since I began. I've noticed some general improvements in my health. I'm sleeping better. I'm not bloated. My sense of taste has improved. I'm going to get my BP checked this Monday to see if it's actually gone down any since last month. Hopefully, it has.
My shoulder and upper bicep continue to ache. The stretches I was doing do not seem to be helping any more, and now I've got a weird tension thing going on in the back of my neck. I think I may have to just submit to an MRI, just to rule out the possibility of a mild muscle tear. I still have a full range of motion, but if I extend my arm or move it in a strange way then it gets uncomfortable verging on painful.
In nonmedical related news, I'll be covering The Store next week for Jorg while he's off in Colorado. He's accompanying his girlfriend on a business trip. I'm not babysitting Shadow while he's gone. His mom is coming up to stay at the house. Not sure how I feel about that, as she's just completed a round of radiation for cancer treatment. I did offer, but Jorg said no. Pity. It would have been nice to be in the old neighborhood again.
I'm thinking of going to see 'My Neighbor Totoro' tonight at the movies. But the more I think of it, the less I really want to go. I'll probably just go by the game shop, grab some groceries and come home.
My shoulder and upper bicep continue to ache. The stretches I was doing do not seem to be helping any more, and now I've got a weird tension thing going on in the back of my neck. I think I may have to just submit to an MRI, just to rule out the possibility of a mild muscle tear. I still have a full range of motion, but if I extend my arm or move it in a strange way then it gets uncomfortable verging on painful.
In nonmedical related news, I'll be covering The Store next week for Jorg while he's off in Colorado. He's accompanying his girlfriend on a business trip. I'm not babysitting Shadow while he's gone. His mom is coming up to stay at the house. Not sure how I feel about that, as she's just completed a round of radiation for cancer treatment. I did offer, but Jorg said no. Pity. It would have been nice to be in the old neighborhood again.
I'm thinking of going to see 'My Neighbor Totoro' tonight at the movies. But the more I think of it, the less I really want to go. I'll probably just go by the game shop, grab some groceries and come home.
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Jun. 20th, 2026 10:47 pmA while back my right shoulder and arm started to ache, expecially when I lifted said arm above my head. After a few weeks with no real improvement in sight, I broke down and went to the doctor. I was fairly certain I didn't have any rotator cuff injury, but thought it possible I might have torn a muscle. After an examination, the doctor suggested that it was tendinitis, brought on by a lot of repetitive motion. He wrote me a perscription for industrial-strength anti-inflammatories and suggested I check out some shoulder-specific physical therapy videos on YT. He asked me to call him back in a week and let him know how I was doing.
While I was at the doctor's I discovered, unsurprisingly, that my blood pressure was sky high. Now, my entire family runs high en regardes to blood pressure, but this was high even for me. The physical pain was probably spiking it, but I decided that I should do something to get it down. So, enter the low-sodium diet. Pheh.
I've been on the diet for about four days now - and gave up caffeine as well - and I am incredibly sick of my food choices already. Because not only do I have to watch out for sodium, but oxalate in my foods as well. Processed foods are mostly out, but I HATE to cook. So I've mostly been eating microwave rice with various vegetables added, and whatever low-sodium proteins I can find.
My poor stomach is like, "What are you doiing to us?"
Buddy, I wish I knew. I really wish I knew.
While I was at the doctor's I discovered, unsurprisingly, that my blood pressure was sky high. Now, my entire family runs high en regardes to blood pressure, but this was high even for me. The physical pain was probably spiking it, but I decided that I should do something to get it down. So, enter the low-sodium diet. Pheh.
I've been on the diet for about four days now - and gave up caffeine as well - and I am incredibly sick of my food choices already. Because not only do I have to watch out for sodium, but oxalate in my foods as well. Processed foods are mostly out, but I HATE to cook. So I've mostly been eating microwave rice with various vegetables added, and whatever low-sodium proteins I can find.
My poor stomach is like, "What are you doiing to us?"
Buddy, I wish I knew. I really wish I knew.
I was mucking around in ChatGPT the last few days and I got so irritated with the stupid popup encouring a free account that I caved in and got one.
And it was okay.
Until tonight, when I got a popup advising me that I had reached my limit of chats and it would switch to a less powerful (dumber) version until it reset tomorrow.
Yeah.
No.
Instantly deleted that account.
ChatGPT can be useful, but I'm not gonna deal with a company/profuct that limits usage.
And I don't recall seeing anything about them dumbing down the system in the TOS.
I probably missed it, but if I'd seen in? I would not have created an account in the first place.
Its the equivalent of an airline giving you free miles and then telling you that you can only use 100 of your 10,000.
Meh.
And it was okay.
Until tonight, when I got a popup advising me that I had reached my limit of chats and it would switch to a less powerful (dumber) version until it reset tomorrow.
Yeah.
No.
Instantly deleted that account.
ChatGPT can be useful, but I'm not gonna deal with a company/profuct that limits usage.
And I don't recall seeing anything about them dumbing down the system in the TOS.
I probably missed it, but if I'd seen in? I would not have created an account in the first place.
Its the equivalent of an airline giving you free miles and then telling you that you can only use 100 of your 10,000.
Meh.
I can't believe it's already June
Jun. 3rd, 2026 07:29 pmHonestly! Where does the time go?
So far, this month has been okay. Gas prices have dropped. My banged up arm is slowly healing. Things at The Store have been okay.
Pride is upon us again. OutFest is coming up and one of my coworkers is involved in it and she won't stop bitching about stuff. In her defense, complaining is her default state, but she's like a broken record. I want to take her hands, look her in the eyes and say, "Honey, I just don't care. Go find a therapist to vent to, because I'm tired of hearing you complain."
What's the line from the Austin Powers movie? "If you have an issue, here's a tissue." Blot those eyes, blow that nose and get the fuck on with your life. Ugh.
On a positive note, I've managed to save up about $6000 for a newish car. Yay! Fingers crossed nothing goes wrong before then. *knocks on wood*
So far, this month has been okay. Gas prices have dropped. My banged up arm is slowly healing. Things at The Store have been okay.
Pride is upon us again. OutFest is coming up and one of my coworkers is involved in it and she won't stop bitching about stuff. In her defense, complaining is her default state, but she's like a broken record. I want to take her hands, look her in the eyes and say, "Honey, I just don't care. Go find a therapist to vent to, because I'm tired of hearing you complain."
What's the line from the Austin Powers movie? "If you have an issue, here's a tissue." Blot those eyes, blow that nose and get the fuck on with your life. Ugh.
On a positive note, I've managed to save up about $6000 for a newish car. Yay! Fingers crossed nothing goes wrong before then. *knocks on wood*
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May. 2nd, 2026 09:13 pmToday, I worked a 12-hour shift at The Store. Went in at 8:00 and left at 8:00.
Sprawling on the floor of my bedroom now, trying to ignore the dull, hateful ache of my feet. They are NOT fond of me right now.
On a vaguely related note, it's tough being the oldest person in your friend group.
I am treated less like a revered elder and more like a cautionary tale.
Sprawling on the floor of my bedroom now, trying to ignore the dull, hateful ache of my feet. They are NOT fond of me right now.
On a vaguely related note, it's tough being the oldest person in your friend group.
I am treated less like a revered elder and more like a cautionary tale.
Elevators, The Devil and Citadel
Apr. 30th, 2026 07:32 pmI had the strangest dream last night. I was at my old job, trying to take the elevator to the floor that I worked on, but the elevator never stopped at the right floor. It was super frustrating and I woke up in a not so great mood this morning. That's why I sat down this morning and vented my spleen by writing really, REALLY darkfic. Which, once the mood was exorcised, I immediately deleted. Which also, weirdly, made me feel better.
Later in the afternoon I went and saw 'The Devil Wears Prada 2' at my local AMC Theater. I think it will be a while before I go there again. The lobby was a madhouse and there were screening problems in the theater.
As for the movie? Meh. It was okay. I enjoyed the first one, but this one felt toothless to me. They sort of neutered the character of Miranda, by making her more aware of corporate HR. In meetings, she had her assistant sit next to her and quietly correct her when she made an inappropriate remark. I know that's more reflective of contemporary corporate culture, but it just didn't feel like something the character of Miranda Priestly would give a fuck about. I will say this, they did give her more layers than in the first movie and Meryl Streep played her excellently.
Anne Hathaway's Andrea "Andy" Sachs character has not developed at all in the twenty year span since the first movie. She's supposed to be this experienced, wordly journalist, but the minute she comes face to face with Miranda it's like she's reduced to a wide-eyed, self-conscious waif.
Stanley Tucci's Nigel remains unchanged from the first movie. No real character development, but then, you don't really feel like he needed any.
Emily Blunt's character, Emily Charlton, is the only character aside from Miranda who seems to have changed since the first movie. She's still the same essential Emily from the first flick, but now she has goals and ambitions of her own since leaving Runway and getting out of Miranda's shadow. Indeed, her current position gives her a considerable amount of influence over Runway, as she contributes quite a bit to their advertising budget.
Overall, the movie was okay. It was worth paying matinee prices for, but as I left the theater, I couldn't help but feel like I could have watched this movie on The Disney Channel. The plot felt childish, the characters mostly two-dimensional, the world they inhabit more corporate gray than glamorous pastel.
I'd probably give it 2 out of 5 stars. Matinee worthy, but not really date-worthy.
And now I have to find something to watch tonight. On a related note, I've seen some clips for 'Citadel' that stars Stanley Tucci as a spy. It looks interesting. I might check that out.
Later in the afternoon I went and saw 'The Devil Wears Prada 2' at my local AMC Theater. I think it will be a while before I go there again. The lobby was a madhouse and there were screening problems in the theater.
As for the movie? Meh. It was okay. I enjoyed the first one, but this one felt toothless to me. They sort of neutered the character of Miranda, by making her more aware of corporate HR. In meetings, she had her assistant sit next to her and quietly correct her when she made an inappropriate remark. I know that's more reflective of contemporary corporate culture, but it just didn't feel like something the character of Miranda Priestly would give a fuck about. I will say this, they did give her more layers than in the first movie and Meryl Streep played her excellently.
Anne Hathaway's Andrea "Andy" Sachs character has not developed at all in the twenty year span since the first movie. She's supposed to be this experienced, wordly journalist, but the minute she comes face to face with Miranda it's like she's reduced to a wide-eyed, self-conscious waif.
Stanley Tucci's Nigel remains unchanged from the first movie. No real character development, but then, you don't really feel like he needed any.
Emily Blunt's character, Emily Charlton, is the only character aside from Miranda who seems to have changed since the first movie. She's still the same essential Emily from the first flick, but now she has goals and ambitions of her own since leaving Runway and getting out of Miranda's shadow. Indeed, her current position gives her a considerable amount of influence over Runway, as she contributes quite a bit to their advertising budget.
Overall, the movie was okay. It was worth paying matinee prices for, but as I left the theater, I couldn't help but feel like I could have watched this movie on The Disney Channel. The plot felt childish, the characters mostly two-dimensional, the world they inhabit more corporate gray than glamorous pastel.
I'd probably give it 2 out of 5 stars. Matinee worthy, but not really date-worthy.
And now I have to find something to watch tonight. On a related note, I've seen some clips for 'Citadel' that stars Stanley Tucci as a spy. It looks interesting. I might check that out.
Music I Have Listened to Tonight
Apr. 16th, 2026 10:52 pm"Under the Jolly Roger" by Running Wild
"Killed to Death by Piracy" by Alestorm
"Banana" by Alestorm
"Valhallelujah" by Nanowar of Steel
"Call Me Cruella" by Florence & The Machine
"Hunting Soul" by Hayashi (Japanese version! The English version sucks soooo bad.)
"How It's Done" from K-Pop Demon Hunters
"Pop/Stars" by K/DA
"2.0" by BTS
"Blush" by BINI
"Elan" by Nightwish
yeah i'm kinda all over the place tonight. lol.
"Killed to Death by Piracy" by Alestorm
"Banana" by Alestorm
"Valhallelujah" by Nanowar of Steel
"Call Me Cruella" by Florence & The Machine
"Hunting Soul" by Hayashi (Japanese version! The English version sucks soooo bad.)
"How It's Done" from K-Pop Demon Hunters
"Pop/Stars" by K/DA
"2.0" by BTS
"Blush" by BINI
"Elan" by Nightwish
yeah i'm kinda all over the place tonight. lol.
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Apr. 14th, 2026 07:42 pmSo, I've been using talkai.info as an editorial aid for a while now, but when I went there today I saw they've put a limit cap on the number of questions you can ask the free version.
Ah well.
This is probably a good thing. Unless you specifically specify the type of feedback you want to receive (objective, concise, etc) it tends to gush positivity at you.
Ah well.
This is probably a good thing. Unless you specifically specify the type of feedback you want to receive (objective, concise, etc) it tends to gush positivity at you.
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Apr. 13th, 2026 10:25 pmSo far this month, I've lost six pounds. Yay me!
I decided to lose a bit of weight after discovering I'd put on 15 pounds over the winter. Not great. It was starting to trigger my plantar fasciitis, and I noticed some heat rashes in some rather intimite locations. Ahem.
So! After giving it some thought, I decided I'd start counting calories. I'm a very sedate individual, so after some consultation I decided to limit my calories between 1800 and 2000 a day.
So far, so good. If I can lose about ten more pounds I'll be happy.
In other news, I had a very nice young lady tell me I had 'sweet eyes' the other day. It was very nice and gave me a tiny ego boost, as I do occasionally get compliments on my eyes.
I decided to lose a bit of weight after discovering I'd put on 15 pounds over the winter. Not great. It was starting to trigger my plantar fasciitis, and I noticed some heat rashes in some rather intimite locations. Ahem.
So! After giving it some thought, I decided I'd start counting calories. I'm a very sedate individual, so after some consultation I decided to limit my calories between 1800 and 2000 a day.
So far, so good. If I can lose about ten more pounds I'll be happy.
In other news, I had a very nice young lady tell me I had 'sweet eyes' the other day. It was very nice and gave me a tiny ego boost, as I do occasionally get compliments on my eyes.
Easter 2026
Apr. 5th, 2026 06:03 pmToday, I was at The Store.
I might as well have stayed home. I only had five people come in and we barely cracked $300.
I was soooooooo bored!
I don't remember last Easter being this slow, but I'm also aware that more people seem to be traveling this weekend than last year. *shrug* Whatever.
Happy Easter.
I might as well have stayed home. I only had five people come in and we barely cracked $300.
I was soooooooo bored!
I don't remember last Easter being this slow, but I'm also aware that more people seem to be traveling this weekend than last year. *shrug* Whatever.
Happy Easter.
Spring Anime 2026
Apr. 2nd, 2026 05:51 pmSo, the Spring Anime Season has begun and, so far, it's not been great.
Most of the new stuff I've checked out has not been good.
"Petals of Reincarnation" didn't grab me, even though the MC is semi-interesting.
"Dead Again, Mr. Detective" wasn't for me. I bailed on that within the first ten minutes.
"Monster Eater" looked interesting, but the animation was awful. Then I realized it was by the same studio that did "Potion, Wagami wo Tasukeru' and understood why the animation was so bad.
I did like 'The Strongest Job Is...An Appraiser(Profivional)!" Although the boob jokes got old fast.
Surprisingly, the only thing that I've really enjoyed so far this week has been the third season of "Reborn as a Vending Machine." Yes, that is the actual premise. A guy gets reborn in a fantasy world as a sentient, magical vending machine.
I haven't checked out everything of course. I tend to avoid certain genres: comedy, high school, slice of life, romance. And there are lots of those out this season. There's a lot of buzz around 'Witch Hat Atelier' and hopefully it lives up to the hype.
Most of the new stuff I've checked out has not been good.
"Petals of Reincarnation" didn't grab me, even though the MC is semi-interesting.
"Dead Again, Mr. Detective" wasn't for me. I bailed on that within the first ten minutes.
"Monster Eater" looked interesting, but the animation was awful. Then I realized it was by the same studio that did "Potion, Wagami wo Tasukeru' and understood why the animation was so bad.
I did like 'The Strongest Job Is...An Appraiser(Profivional)!" Although the boob jokes got old fast.
Surprisingly, the only thing that I've really enjoyed so far this week has been the third season of "Reborn as a Vending Machine." Yes, that is the actual premise. A guy gets reborn in a fantasy world as a sentient, magical vending machine.
I haven't checked out everything of course. I tend to avoid certain genres: comedy, high school, slice of life, romance. And there are lots of those out this season. There's a lot of buzz around 'Witch Hat Atelier' and hopefully it lives up to the hype.