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I was going to come here and talk about the anime I've been watching, but then I saw the latest update regarding Dreamwidth legal battles and that now no one under 18 in SC can create a new account on the site. Apparently, sometime yesterday the Foghorn Leghorn impersonator a.k.a. Governor Henry McMasters signed a law into immediate effect banning anyone under 18 from using social media. So far, according to DW, there's nothing necessitating age verification for existing accounts, but if that kicks in I'm going to be super-pissed and probably have to shut down this blog. And I've had it for ages!

Here's hoping that doesn't happen, but knowing this state I wouldn't put it past 'em to require age verification on social media sites, lumping them in with the porn sites. Yeah, my backward ass state requires third-party age verification to access "adult sites" too.

God, I miss the old days when only a handful of people were on the fucking internet.

:(
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I have been sick all this week, which has been a bummer.

I've left the house twice, to get groceries/meds, and that's it. I've spent the entirety of the week either in the bedroom or downstairs on the couch.

Thankfully my roommate, Lance (yes that is his real name and no he is not gay), had to go out of town this week for job training, so I haven't infected him. I did however have to take care of the cats, which was nice, if a bit exhausting. Roma, the kitten, has two settings: Sleep and Zoomie! She has spent most of this week in Zoomie! mode, literally bouncing off the walls.

As I write this, I'm actually feeling a lot better than I did on Tuesday. I called in to work and am taking tomorrow off, but I think I'll be good for Saturday and Sunday. And I guess I'll go in some time next week and work an extra day or something to make up for Friday.

Now, if only my stomach will stop making sounds like a still about to explode...
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I am sick to death of hearing about Charlie-fucking-Kirk.

Damnit

Feb. 18th, 2025 09:53 pm
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I think my laptop of seven years is about to crash on me.

I've got a ton of stuff on this thing that I would like to keep.

I'm gonna have to start saving stuff on my memory stick and go look for a new computer tomorrow I guess. :/
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Went to an adult platform tonight and got hit with this:

Dear user,

As you may know, your elected officials in South Carolina are requiring us to verify your age before allowing you access to our website. While safety and compliance are at the forefront of our mission, giving your ID card every time you want to visit an adult platform is not the most effective solution for protecting our users, and in fact, will put children and your privacy at risk.

In addition, mandating age verification without proper enforcement gives platforms the opportunity to choose whether or not to comply. As we’ve seen in other states, this just drives traffic to sites with far fewer safety measures in place. Very few sites are able to compare to the robust Trust and Safety measures we currently have in place. To protect children and user privacy, any legislation must be enforced against all platforms offering adult content.

The safety of our users is one of our biggest concerns. We believe that the best and most effective solution for protecting children and adults alike is to identify users by their device and allow access to age-restricted materials and websites based on that identification. Until a real solution is offered, we have made the difficult decision to completely disable access to our website in South Carolina.

Please contact your representatives before it is too late and demand device-based verification solutions that make the internet safer while also respecting your privacy.

Redtube is rated with RTA label. Parents, you can easily block access to this site. Please read this page for more information.

Fucking assholes.
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So, we got some snow last night. Just half an inch, but that's enough to close down everything around here because people aren't used to driving in that kind of weather. I think most people have stayed home tody as well. God knows how people in Florida are handeling it. I saw that Pensacola had seven inches of snow! That's nuts.

I broke my headphones last night which is super irritating. I got these Skull Candy headphones and they lasted for years, with no problems, which is super-rare for me. But last night, as I was standing up, I didn't realize my headphone chord was under my knee and the phones snapped. Meh.

I'll go to Target tomorrow, when the roads are clearer, and get a new pair.

New Shoes

Jan. 15th, 2025 06:06 pm
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Today, I went out and bought new shoes at the Shoe Carnival on Harbison Boulevard. I am totally tagging this entry so that, a year from now, I will know where I got the shoes from. That is, if shoes are still available under the future administration. *eyeroll*

I also found a new pair of pajama pants at Harmicks of all places. They cost me $6 and I'm wearing them right now.

Hung out at the Store for a little while and chatted with Jorg about the future of Diamond. Jorg is of the hope that they'll get their shit together and bounce back, providing better service. Why? Because ordering comics, etc. from multiple distributors is a pain in the friggin ass.

Afterwards, I went by Firehouse Subs and tried a New York Steamer. It was really good and I will be getting it again in future. Then, I came home, threw out my old shoes, vacuumed my bedroom and *finally* made my bed. The cats hung out with me for a while. Fatboy got trapped inside my bathroom cabinet, while Link just sprawled on the carpet, purring like a purring thing.

A lot of my social media right now is taken up by people reacting to the Vulture article on Neil Gaiman and the allegations made against him. I think it's strange how none of the women pressed criminal charges at the time of the alleged incidents and the one woman continued to work for him as a babysitter after the first alleged incident with him. Believe what you belive. I have no intention of getting rid of any of the books in my library written by Gaiman, nor will I dispose of the Endless statues I own. But, to each their own, I suppose.
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Someone tried to break into The Store this evening some time after I left.
I found out when I saw a post from Jorg on FB. Whoever did it, apparently threw a big ass rock through the window, near our life-sized Spider-Man.
According to Jorg, nothing got stolen. He said the alarm went off and that probably scared them off.
I'm assuming the security company called him about the alarm. I hope he's called the police and insurance. I know he was patching the hole until a more permanent repair can be made. But I feel so bad for him, because he's doing a show in Charlotte tomorrow so he and Ty were going to leave at 330 this morning to get in line to load-in before too late.
Tomorrow, I'm probably going to be explaining what happened to people all damn day.
I hope the person or persons responsible for the break in die a slow and painful death!
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I got up this morning and voted at my local polling place. There was no line when I went, but the folks manning the place said there was a long line when they opened at 7 AM. A lot of people in my state, about 45% of registered voters according to some sources, voted early. My state has voted Republican since 2000, but I'm hoping that might flip this year. *fingers crossed*

After voting, I did some errands. Unfortunately, after leaving the Mall, I was trying to get into a turn lane behind a big white SUV and accidentally clipped them. I pulled over and the SUV did as well. The driver was very nice, and I was extremely apologetic. Her driver's side tail light was cracked and will need to be replaced, but that was the only damage that we saw. I offered to pay for the damages because it was my fault, and we exchanged names and telephone numbers, but not insurance info. I really don't want to get insurance involved because I know those fuckers will raise my bill. So, fingers crossed that the situation is resolved just between us and that whereever they go to get the light fixed doesn't jack up the price.

Now, I am home, doing laundry and lying on the floor writing this up. I am avoiding the news until tomorrow, and hoping that people won't go nuts if their candidate doesn't win.

Yeah, I'm not really expecting that to happen either.
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*sigh*
I went to a Halloween bonfire this evening in a little town about an hour away from where I live. I was invited by a friend from a FB group I belong to, who said some others from the group would be there as well. I was looking forward to a night that was, I don't know, more in tune with the spirit of the evening.

What I got was basically a drunken kegger attended by a bunch of wannabes. The music was terrible. The majority of the people were terrible. The food was terrible. (If I'd known that I would have stopped off at a McDonalds or something and eaten before I got there!)

My FB friend who had invited me was kind of apalled by the party-goers behavior and apologized profusely, but then she went off to drink absinthe with her girlfriend. SMH.

The highlight of the evening was when one of the drunken oafs fell off a log and possibly ruptured a testicle. While everybody else was hauling his big, stupid ass to the nearest ER, I exited stage left.

I should have just stayed home and hung out with the cats while eating popcorn and watching spooky movies online.

I don't even feel like lighting my Halloween candle or doing any of my other rituals.

This has been the Worst Halloween ever. :(
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Jesus Fuck!
I just got my bill from the Urgent Care where I had my wrist x-rayed last Sunday.
It was almost $700 freakin' dollars!
That is utterly insane!
They charged me, like, $250 for the fucking visit! And that's after a $50 copay!
That's fucking ridiculous!
I guess I should point out that this isn't an actual Urgent Care, it's an Urgent Care-like place affiliated with a major hospital in my area.
If I'd known they were gonna be charging me fucking hospital prices, I wouldn't have gotten my wrist x-rayed. I would have just toughed it out and seen what happened!
Gouging motherfuckers.
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So, August ended on a down note for your's truly. While at The Store yesterday, I took our beloved Store Dog out for a potty break. As I was walking across the parking lot, I tripped over my own two feet(I think), and faceplanted on the asphalt. There were three people around who saw it happen, but all were wary of approaching because of Beloved Store Dog. I picked myself up and one guy in a wheelchair asked if I was okay? I said that I thought I was, then I felt blood running down my face. I wasn't too concerned because head/face wounds always bleed a lot more than other places, and I felt okay. I let the dog poo, then went into the Store to take stock of myself. Using my Phone cam, I saw that I had a big gouge in my head, a small abrasian next to my right eye and another one below my lip. It looked like I'd been in a fight.
My left hand was abraded, as well as my left knee. I had apparently fallen on my left arm, and it was sore, but I could move it and was pretty sure it wasn't broken. I cleaned myself up as best as I could, then went back to the counter. Jorg didn't notice anything wrong until someone else said something and then I had to tell what happenened. Very embarrassing. I did go up to CVS and grab some bandages and antiseptic spray (Which I am NEVER using again! That shit burned like fucking napalm.), but I finished the rest of the day. Last night, I popped an ibuprofin and went to bed around ten. When I got up this morning, my right wrist felt odd, so I went by Urgent Care and had them take a look at it. No break, thank goodness, but apparently I really did a number on my tendons. They offered me an Ace bandage, which I took, and some painkillers, which I declined, and then I went into work.
After work, I went by Walgreens to grab some extra bandages and a wrap bandage for the knee. But I don't care for the bandages I got (wearing one on my forehead now and it looks like I've got a diaper on my head), so will probably run through what I've bought and then just go without.
So, September. Oy vey. I hope we're getting rid of all the bad stuff early. Okay? And that the rest of this month is super-boring for everyone.
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Yo, I am failing HARD at this diet.

*sigh*

I have fallen into the trap of just grabbing stuff when I'm out and about, which usually amounts to eating junk. Salty, sugary delicious junk.

But still junk.
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So, my mail headaches continue.
I didn't get one of my credit card bills. And I'm waiting to see if I've got the other at the house right now.
I think the problem is that I went online and cancelled my mail forwarding, but that it might not have kicked in. Or someone at the post office just hasn't noticed. Or that my mail is still getting sent to the 427 address, but Chuck is just throwing it out because he can't be bothered.
In any event, I think I'm going to have to go up to Columbia tomorrow and talk to someone at the post office. I'd do it today but it's fucking Juneteenth, a ridiculous holiday that not even black people seem to know about.
Pheh.
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Came home this afternoon and my roommate of one month told me that he didn't think our situation was working out. Basically, our schedules are too different. So, I'm out of here as of July 1st.
Fuck.
I just finished changing all of my address stuff.
Now I have to change it all the fuck back.
Fuck.
And, on top of all of that, now I have to find a new place to live.
Gods, I'm probably gonna have to move back in with my Mom....
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Today started off really nice, but ended a bit crap.
While out and about today, I noticed my car was dragging a bit when I started her. I thought it might be the battery, so I had it checked and, yes, the battery was bad.
But after I left the service station, I went to the library, and when I came out to my car, she wouldn't start. Radio and lights worked, but there was no sound at all when I turned the ignition. My first thought was the damned starter had gone out.
I called Jorg, and he came by and took a look at it, but he couldn't figure it out. So I called AAA and arranged a towe to Midas. But the towe driver was able to get my car started and when he looked under the hood, he was pretty sure my problem was the battery leads. They're the old brass kind that corrode. He thought they weren't drawing charge from the battery.
He got my car started and I drove it to Midas, dropped it off, told the techs what the towe driver thought, then walked home.
Tomorrow, I have to work, so I'm getting up early and catching a bloody cab.
Pheh.
Hopefully, I can get the car sorted soon and be mobile again.
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I did a load of laundry tonight and when I took the clothes out of the dryer, I noticed that some of the clothes had a weird 'burning rubber' kind of smell clinging to them. I did some googling and there are a couple of reasons this could have happened. The most likely causes are a faulty thermostat or a belt going bad.
Sigh.
So, I shall have to go by the Store tomorrow and talk to Jorg about it. If he's not able to come out and check it out in the next week or so, I'll call a repair place. Until then, though, it looks like I'll be doing laundry at the laundromat again. :/

Binge

Feb. 8th, 2024 04:39 am
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Tonight, I went on a bit of a food binge.
Not sure why.
I wasn't feeling upset or anything.
I just binged on the groceries I bought this afternoon.
Now that I think about it though, I did have a fair amount of caffeine today. That could have contributed to it.
That, and the decrease in carbs.
My stupid brain might just be thinking I'm starving or something and so the part of the brain that makes me want to eat everything in sight got overstimulated.
And I am craving Doritos, right bloody now.
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Tomorrow, I am going to unfriend someone in the real world.
Paul.
He's the bipolar diabetic guy I've known for about 10 years, and, over the last few years, I've been providing transportation to him for groceries, etc. because he fell on hard times.

I don't feel great doing this. I am not looking forward to the conversation I'm going to have to have with him tomorrow afternoon.
But it's going to happen.
I need it to happen.

I used to like hanging out with Paul and even helping him with his situation. But over time, that friendliness has whithered. Now, when I think of Paul, I just feel like he's this enormous obligation that the universe has dumped on me, hanging around my neck like an albatross.

I do not want to be around him. I do not want to do anything for him.
And I am tired of feeling like I should have to.
He's got family that should be looking after him, that should be aware of his worsening financial situation, that should be saying, "Hey! You have to leave that tomb of a trailer and come live with me!"
I am starting to actively resent him.

So, it's time to part ways.
It's time to say 'Have a nice life' and leave.

I'm not sure, exactly, what I'm going to say, but it will be final.
Any advice would be welcome. :(
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So, Jorg got sick on Christmas and was out of the Store all week until today. So, I covered and ran things and generally made do with the unexpected disruption.
I knew he was really sick when he called on Wednesday to tell me he wouldn't be in to do subscriptions. In the eight years that Jorg has owned the Store, he has NEVER missed a subscription night. So he was either (a) really sick or (b) New Wife put her foot down and made him stay home. I rather hope it was the second as Jorg needs to better delinate his Home-Time and Work-Time.
But he was in today, which was fortunate, as I started to feel under the weather. He sent me home with hearty thanks and a pocketful of cash. (Somehow, I have managed to acrue $1200 this month. I have absolutely no idea how I've done this.)
I have been sitting in bed, downstairs, with the little space heater going full blast to warm my bedroom. I've had food and soda and am feeling . . . okay? My nose is trying to run off my face and I wish the cough would go away, but otherwise, I feel quite fine.
I have no real plans for the New Year other than, maybe, going into the Store on Sunday and popping open a bottle of champers on the actual night. I'm not going anywhere or doing anything special, but I'm so ready for 2023 to be over with and the fresh slate of 2024 to arrive.

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