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This afternoon, I had a romantic interlude with a lovely lady named Margie.
Afterward, we had an interesting conversation about the transactional nature of sex.
I could not, for the life of me, tell you how we got on that subject. I think we veered to it from a conversation about OnlyFans porn. *shrug*
Anyway, I said that I thought that all sex was transactional in nature. Just because the transaction doesn't involve goods or services or cash, doesn't mean that the giver/receiver isn't getting something out of the act. Physical pleasure. Mental fulfillment. Spiritual satisfaction. Whatever.
Margie said that she could see my argument, but that she didn't agree with it. Margie said that she felt there was an unquantifiable link that occurred between people who were intimite that couldn't be reduced to a purely transactional nature. A spiritual connection, if you will.
It was interesting pillow talk, and we resolved nothing whatsoever, but I think it gave each of us more insight into the other, which I suppose is a good thing.
But I have this sneaking suspicioun that we will never have sex again, because of that conversation.
Afterward, we had an interesting conversation about the transactional nature of sex.
I could not, for the life of me, tell you how we got on that subject. I think we veered to it from a conversation about OnlyFans porn. *shrug*
Anyway, I said that I thought that all sex was transactional in nature. Just because the transaction doesn't involve goods or services or cash, doesn't mean that the giver/receiver isn't getting something out of the act. Physical pleasure. Mental fulfillment. Spiritual satisfaction. Whatever.
Margie said that she could see my argument, but that she didn't agree with it. Margie said that she felt there was an unquantifiable link that occurred between people who were intimite that couldn't be reduced to a purely transactional nature. A spiritual connection, if you will.
It was interesting pillow talk, and we resolved nothing whatsoever, but I think it gave each of us more insight into the other, which I suppose is a good thing.
But I have this sneaking suspicioun that we will never have sex again, because of that conversation.
