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I went and saw my mom today, which is always "fun." Mostly, I just sat there for three hours while she bitched about other family members, etc. I left when it got dark.

Don't get me wrong. I love my Mom, but sometimes visiting with her is a bit . . . much.

I saw on FB that there was an Anti-Trump protest planned for the statehouse today, but there were conflicting times. The FB page said it was going on at 2PM, but the official site said it was happening at noon. In either case, I didn't go, although I did think about it. I've never been to a protest before in my life, but the fact that I'm considering doing it should indicate just how fed up I am with the way things are going.

In other news, my new diet is going well.

I've decided that Tuesdays will be a Free Day for me when I can step off the diet fasttrack and just take a breather and enjoy some things. I think that's a good way to save my sanity. Or what's left of it. Ha!

Today, after leaving Mom's I stopped off at Circle K and grabbed an extra large Polar Pop and filled it to the brim with Cherry Coke. This may, or may not, have derailed my effort to quiet the Soda Monster that lives in my brain.

Points: 100
Points Used: 08 (Polar Pop)
Points: 92
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Went and saw my Mom today, after a longer than usual period. She was in good spirits, although she did shit-talk some of the family, but not like the last time. She had some special words for my brother-in-law, regarding drinking on the water (Which, in all fairness, is STUPID),but I pointed out that my sister is a grown-ass woman and if she's content in her marriage it's none of Mom's business. Then I got the lowdown on one of my first-cousin's wives, who had to go to the hospital to get her big toe amputated after it got infected; she's diabectic, but has been ignoring it, so she has some other health stuff going on too.
I don't really communicate with my cousins or their kids, and I'm kind of glad that I don't. Just from what I get second-hand, and from what I've seen on social media, their lives are a string of dumpster fires.
I also don't really interact with my sister, except through the socials,and she doesn't post drama related stuff online. Honestly, I think most of her posts are curated as carefully as any politican's public feed.

Left mom and came home, stopping off at the grocery store to grab some eats. While I was ringing my stuff up at the self-checkout this young woman and her child come up and park their asses right behind me, waiting on me to get done. She was very much in my personal space, and she jumped the line of other people waiting, which just pissed me off. And as soon as I'd finished bagging my stuff, she starts unloading her crap on the little shelf. She was just pushy and rude, but I left without saying anything, although I'm pretty sure my annoyance was obvious. Some people. SMH.

Home now, eating chicken salad and grapes in front of the box fan, and contemplating a prospective side hustle.
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I got woken up this morning by my Mom.

My Mom never calls me in the morning, so I'm thinking something must be wrong. My first thought was that something had happened to someone in the family.

But, no, everyone in the family is fine.

Mom called because my dad came around the other day. He just popped into her house like he owned the place(!!!) asking about me and my sister.

My sister has pretty much told my mom that she doesn't want anything to do with him, but Mom called me to see how I felt about that.

Well, I haven't spoken with the man in 31 fucking years. How do you imagine I feel? He has never made any effort to reach out to me. Not a phone call. Not a letter. Nothing.

I told Mom that I wouldn't piss down the old man's throat if his heart was on fire.

So.

That's how my day started.

And I'm sitting here, typing this, wondering what's brought on this sudden desire for reconnection on the old man's part? Is he sick? Has he suddenly realized that he's all alone with no one around him who gives a fuck? And now he's thinking his bio-family will be his fallback?

Well, if that's the case, he's sadly mistaken.

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